Boosting Camper Confidence: How to Encourage Independence & Growth

For many children, summer camp is more than just a fun getaway—it’s a place where they build confidence, develop independence, and grow in ways they never imagined. Whether it’s trying a new activity, making new friends, or simply spending time away from home, every moment at camp is an opportunity for personal growth.

So, how can camps intentionally foster confidence in their campers? Here are some proven strategies to help campers step out of their comfort zones and into their full potential.

1. Encourage Decision-Making 🏕️

One of the best ways to help campers build confidence is by giving them choices. Decision-making fosters independence and teaches them that their opinions matter.

✅ Example: Instead of assigning campers to random activities, allow them to choose between different skill-building options like canoeing vs. rock climbing or art vs. drama. When kids have ownership over their experiences, they feel more engaged and empowered.

💡 Pro Tip: Start small! Give campers the freedom to choose their team roles, meal options, or evening activities to help them practice making decisions in a safe environment.

2. Create a Safe Space for New Challenges 🎯

Growth happens outside of comfort zones, but campers need a supportive environment to take on new challenges. Encouraging them to try new things—even if they’re nervous—helps develop resilience and self-trust.

✅ Example: A camper afraid of the high ropes course may feel overwhelmed at first. Instead of forcing them up, start with small wins like balancing on a low beam or climbing a short wall. Celebrate every step to build their courage for bigger challenges.

💡 Pro Tip: Use "challenge by choice"—encouraging, but never pressuring, campers to step outside their comfort zones.

3. Foster Leadership Opportunities 🌟

When campers take on leadership roles, they gain confidence in their abilities and learn how to problem-solve, collaborate, and take initiative.

✅ Example: Assign campers rotating leadership roles, like being the "Activity Captain", leading the campfire song, or helping organize a group game. Even small responsibilities, like leading a cabin clean-up or mentoring a younger camper, can make a big impact.

💡 Pro Tip: Have a Camper Leadership Program where older campers mentor younger ones or help staff run activities. This not only builds confidence but also creates a culture of responsibility.

4. Normalize Mistakes & Celebrate Effort 🏆

Confidence isn’t just about success—it’s also about learning how to handle setbacks. When kids realize that mistakes are a natural part of learning, they become more resilient and willing to try new things.

✅ Example: If a camper misses a basketball shot, instead of saying, “It’s okay, you’ll get it next time,” try, “I love how you kept trying! Let’s see if we can adjust your stance for the next one.” This shifts the focus from failure to growth.

💡 Pro Tip: Introduce "Failure Fridays"—a fun group discussion where staff and campers share stories about things they tried but didn’t get right the first time. This helps remove the fear of failure and builds a growth mindset.

5. Build a Supportive Camp Culture 🤝

Campers thrive when they feel supported by their peers and counselors. Creating a culture of encouragement ensures that every camper feels valued and capable.

✅ Example: Start each day with a "Camper Shoutout Circle", where campers share something positive about another camper. This reinforces kindness, teamwork, and mutual support.

💡 Pro Tip: Train counselors to use affirmations and encouragement like:

“I saw how hard you worked on that—you should be really proud!”

“That was a brave choice—you stepped up as a leader!”

Final Thoughts

Confidence isn’t built in a day, but small, intentional actions can make a lasting impact. By encouraging decision-making, taking on challenges, developing leadership skills, and fostering a supportive camp culture, we can help campers discover their strengths and believe in themselves.

🌟 Want to make this summer a confidence-building experience for your campers? Start by empowering them to take on new challenges, make choices, and embrace the journey of growth!